The Silver Fox Summer Survival Guide

Summer is glorious. Sunshine, long evenings, cold drinks, reckless optimism.

It is also a sneaky little menace to gray hair.

While everyone else is busy pretending they love heatwaves, silver-haired legends know the truth: summer can turn great gray hair dry, yellowish, frizzy, flat, or generally rebellious. The good news? A few smart moves keep your silver looking sharp all season.

1. The Sun Is Not Always Your Friend

Yes, sunlight can make gray hair glow beautifully. It can also dry it out and leave it looking dull. Too much UV exposure is basically summer trying to steal your shine.

Solution: wear a hat, use hair products with UV protection, and don’t bake your scalp like a forgotten potato.

2. Chlorine Is a Plot Twist

Pool water may be refreshing, but chlorine loves to meddle with gray hair. It can leave it dry, rough, and sometimes with a strange tint nobody requested.

Solution: wet your hair before swimming, rinse immediately after, and use a clarifying shampoo now and then. Your hair deserves boundaries.

3. Humidity Turns Hair Philosophical

Gray hair can be wiry, soft, coarse, fine, or all four before lunch. Add humidity and suddenly your hairstyle starts making independent decisions.

Solution: lightweight smoothing creams, anti-frizz products, and accepting that summer hair occasionally becomes abstract art. 

4. Purple Shampoo Is Still Your Wingman

If your gray starts looking yellow or tired, this is your reset button. Use purple shampoo once or twice a week to keep tones bright and fresh.

Important note: this is maintenance, not concrete mixer grout. Don’t overdo it. For product ideas, see our classic list of Top 5 Gray Hair Shampoos

5. Hydration Counts

Gray hair often needs more moisture than pigmented hair. Summer heat only adds drama.

Solution: conditioner, leave-in treatments, and drinking enough water yourself. You are not a cactus. Need moisture help? Start with our list of the Best Conditioners for Gray Hair.

6. Confidence Is the Best Styling Product

Nothing looks better than someone who owns their gray hair. Summer is not the season to hide it under panic dye jobs and baseball caps worn in defeat.

Let the silver show. Let it catch the light. Let people wonder what your secret is. If you’re still making the transition, here are our Tips On Growing Out Your Gray Hair.

Final Thought

Summer can be chaotic, but your gray hair doesn’t have to be. Protect it, hydrate it, tone it when needed, and wear it like the crown it is.

Stay cool, stay sharp, stay silver.

The Silver Reset: How to Refresh Your Gray Hair Routine for the Season Ahead

Hello, Silver Foxes! 

As the seasons shift, it’s the perfect time to reassess how we care for our gorgeous gray locks. Whether you’ve been fully silver for years or you’re in the midst of your grey transition, your hair wants something a little different now than it did a few months ago. Here’s how to reboot your regimen — and fall in love with your gray all over again.

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1. Revisit Your Moisture Game

Gray strands tend to be more porous and drier than pigmented hair. With cooler, drier air approaching:

• Swap your daily conditioner for a richer formula. Look for ingredients like shea butter, ceramides, or hydrolysed proteins.

• Weekly hydrating masks become more essential now. Let the mask sit under a shower cap for 15–20 minutes to allow deeper penetration.

• Leave-ins and oils help lock in that moisture. A few drops of argan, marula, or camellia oil can add a silkiness that makes silver strands glow.

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2. Keep the Brass Out, Naturally

One of the perpetual battles in gray hair care is brassiness — especially in seasons with more indoor heating and exposure to UV.

• Try a purple shampoo once or twice a week. A cult favorite is L’Oréal Professionnel Serie Expert Silver Shampoo (Amazon link). It neutralizes yellow tones while leaving your hair shiny.

• For a more botanical option, Aveda Blue Malva Shampoo (Amazon link) uses plant-based blue pigments to keep grays cool and luminous.

• Alternate these with a hydrating shampoo so your hair doesn’t dry out.

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3. Match Cuts & Styles to Gray Texture

As hair turns gray, texture often changes — sometimes becoming coarser, sometimes more delicate.

• Layers or soft cutting can reduce bulk or add movement to heavier silver hair.

• Fringe / bangs might need extra attention: blending with the rest of your hair helps avoid harsh lines.

• Try texturizing sprays or light curl-defining creams to enhance natural waves or softness. Stay away from heavy waxes or gels that may look stiff or chalky on silvery hair.

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4. Mind Your Scalp, Mind Your Health

Healthy gray hair usually starts with a healthy scalp.

• Consider a weekly scalp massage with a light oil (jojoba, grapeseed) to stimulate blood flow.

• If you notice flakes or itchiness, choose a gentle, fragrance-minimal clarifying formula (avoid sulfates, avoid harsh exfoliants).

• Stay hydrated and eat foods rich in omega-3s, antioxidants, and vitamins — your hair reflects what you feed it.

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5. Embrace the Journey

Graying is a unique path for each of us. Some days, your hair will feel like a dream; other days, it might test your patience. But the more you learn how your silver responds to products, weather, and care, the more confident you’ll become in its natural beauty.

• Take photos periodically. You’ll be amazed how much your silver evolves.

• Share your wins — whether it’s a product that finally tames a wiry strand or the moment someone complimented your color.

• Keep experimenting. Your ideal routine now might shift again in a few months, and that’s okay.

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✨ Your Turn: Do you have a go-to product for keeping gray hair shiny and vibrant? Share it in the comments — we’re all on this silver journey together.

The 5 Must-Have Grooming Products for Gray Hair – 2025 Edition

 ✨ Keep your silver smooth, bright, and bold

Gray hair is not one-size-fits-all. Whether you’re salt-and-pepper, icy platinum, or white as snow, taking care of it requires a few specialized tools. Beyond just purple shampoo, there are five standout products that can make a huge difference to how your gray hair feels, looks, and lasts.

Ready to level up your silver game? Here’s your 2025 toolkit:

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1. Purple Shampoo (Of Course)

🟣 Brassiness is real. Gray and white hair are especially prone to yellow tones from pollution, heat styling, and UV rays. A weekly purple shampoo helps keep your shade crisp and cool-toned.

👉 Top pick: Clairol Shimmer Lights Original Shampoo

💡 Only use it 1–2x a week or alternate with a moisturizing formula to prevent dryness. For more purple shampoo tips, revisit my OG post:

🔗 5 Best Gray Hair Shampoos (Classic)

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2. Deep Conditioner

💧 Gray hair tends to be drier and more porous. A weekly deep conditioning treatment helps maintain softness, manageability, and shine.

👉 Top pick: Arvazallia Hydrating Argan Oil Hair Mask

✅ Bonus: Helps reduce that wiry texture some grays develop, especially post-menopause.

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3. Lightweight Styling Cream or Leave-In

⚖️ You want control and smoothness without weighing down your strands. A leave-in styling cream can tame frizz and flyaways while adding polish to natural waves or blow-dried styles.

👉 Top pick: Redken ONE United Leave-In Conditioner

💡 Works especially well if your gray hair has gotten coarse or puffy.

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4. UV Protectant Spray

☀️ Sunlight can literally yellow your hair. If you’re outdoors a lot, or even near windows, this invisible step can make a long-term difference in how fresh your color looks.

👉 Top pick: Aveda Sun Care Protective Hair Veil

🔒 Lightweight, smells great, and won’t mess with your style.

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5. Silver-Safe Dry Shampoo

🚿 Washing every day is overrated. But gray hair gets dull fast when it’s weighed down by oils or products. A translucent dry shampoo keeps it clean without yellow buildup.

👉 Top pick: Batiste Dry Shampoo, Bare Fragrance (No White Cast)

💨 Use at the roots for volume and a quick refresh between wash days.

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Final Thoughts

Gray hair isn’t high-maintenance—it’s specific-maintenance. Once you learn which products truly work, it becomes wayeasier to manage. Start with these five staples, and you’ll keep your silver looking salon-fresh every day.

🌟 Want to go deeper? Browse more tips and reviews in the LOVE THE GRAY archives.

Gray Hair, Don’t Care – Why Silver Is the New Power Color

When we launched LOVE THE GRAY, we had no idea this blog would help so many people feel seen as they let their natural color shine through. Gray hair is more than a trend now—it’s an identity. Here’s why 2025 is the best time ever to love your silver.

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From “Cover It” to “Flaunt It”

Once upon a time, the first grays were a crisis. Now? They’re often an aesthetic goal. People are even dyeing their hair gray on purpose. Men are loving the gray, not just on top of their heads but the gray in their beards.   

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Why People Are Going Gray (and Staying There)

• Freedom: No more root touch-ups every 3 weeks.

• Savings: Salon color = £££. Gray = 💰 in your pocket.

• Healthier Hair: Less bleach, more bounce.

• Confidence: Nothing says “I’ve arrived” like a great head of silver.

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Must-Haves for Your Gray Hair Routine

✔ A purple shampoo once or twice a week

👉 I’ve reviewed the best here: Top Gray Hair Shampoos

✔ A moisturizing conditioner—you can’t skip this step!

👉 Try this one

✔ A UV protectant spray to prevent yellowing in the sun

👉 This one is lightweight and effective

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🎉 Want to Embrace Your Gray in 2025?

Check out our gray grooming guide, our archive of product reviews, and honest advice. Whether you’re just starting or long silver-proud, this blog’s for you.

Product Review: VERB Purple Hair Mask

VERB: HYDRATING MASK 

A hydrating treatment mask that neutralizes brassy and yellow tones in color-treated or natural blonde, gray, and silver hair. 

Farewell brassiness! Verb's nourishing Purple Hair Mask, powered by acai, brightens, hydrates and softens while toning yellow hues. This formula was designed to reduce brassiness in both color-treated and natural blonde, grey and silver hair tones. Great for all hair types. 

Benefits 

• Neutralizes brassy, yellow hues in blonde, grey & silver hair between salon visits
• Intensely hydrates & softens
• Smoothes frizz
• For all hair types & textures: fine, thick, wavy, curly, kinky and straight and those with blonde, grey & silver hair tones

Key Ingredients 

• Pro-vitamin B5 hydrates, smoothes & adds vibrancy to dull strands while providing hair with a natural boost of body
• Sunflower seed extract contains fatty acids that deeply nourish & increase hair manageability while providing natural UV protection to prevent color fading
• Violet pigment cancels out yellow, brassy tones
• Acai extract is high in antioxidants which help protect fragile strands & provide ultimate moisture

Oh Fudge! A review of Fudge Professional Purple Toning Shampoo

Product Review: Fudge Professional Purple Toning Shampoo

Oh, Fudge!

Could this be the most hydrating purple shampoo we've ever used?

Years ago we all gave up on looking for a purple shampoo that didn't dry the heck of our hair. It was just a given. The trade off for the unstoppable brightening power of purple on our brassy tones. Purple shampoo makes our hair dry, so we only use it as often as we need to and make sure to condition and add moisture in every other product we rely on.

But then along came a Violet Toning Shampoo from the funky and fun professional brand Fudge. It does a great job with the whitening and brightening of brassy yellow hair, which is what we would expect from how deeply purple it is. But we didn't expect it to be so rich and hydrating. Fudge claims it's the guarana extract that helps nourish the hair as well as tone, but whatever it is our hair has never felt quite so soft and shiny after a purple shampoo. That's saying a LOT!

They also have a new Fudge Clean Blonde Damage-Rewind Violet Toning Shampoo we will be trying next.

Sulfate free, no animal testing, great for blondes as well, of course. 

Our list of the 5 Best Gray Hair Shampoos.  

5 Best Gray Hair Shampoos for Men

5 Best Gray Hair Shampoos For Men

The Five Best Gray Hair Shampoos For Men

Congrats, you've just realized you're a Silver Fox! 

Now what? 
Let's start with your shampoo. Even if you only have a little bit of gray on the sides or a bit in the beard, you would benefit from an occasional "brightening" shampoo specifically designed to whiten grey hair and remove the yellow brassiness it can sometimes get. Don't use it every day, but often enough until you notice your gray start to sparkle. 

Warning: you will start receiving compliments on how Silver Foxy you are after only a few shampooings!

5. American Crew Gray Hair Shampoo for Men

If any of you men have ever used anything made by American Crew, you know they're always a solid, no-fuss, well formulated grooming product. Their Shampoo for Gray Hair is no exception. It's a bit on the drying side as many purple shampoos are, but used occasionally it's a decent option. 

4. JOICO Color Balance Purple Shampoo 

This is the stylist's choice to keep gray and blonde hair from getting brassy. JOICO has been a salon staple for ages, and they are finally embracing those going gorgeously gray by coming out with a quality purple shampoo. Their Color Balance formula is very moisturizing unlike many purple shampoos, but still packs powerful whitening power. This XXL pump size is perfect for the man who doesn't want to have to think about when it's time to buy more shampoo! 

3. Pantene for Gray Hair

You want an everyday shampoo that's simple yet effective. Removes the yellow tones and has a nice fresh scent. Pantene has been around long enough to deliver the goods at the price you want. Their special gray hair formulation offers a gentle cleansing action that is free of paragons and silicones, although a bit drying if not used along with a conditioner.  

2. United Male Bright White Shampoo

We'll admit it. We fell for the masculine packaging. (But hey, this list is about "male hair products" which really are just "hair products" being sold to men.) So we went for the race car red bottle with the military inspired logo and now we can tell you fellas, it ain't bad! It's a whitening shampoo that successfully brightens, thoroughly cleans, and is a little bit unexpected. Oh, and United Male is a company with a conscious because they don't do animal testing. (They make a great beard oil too!) - apparently this company has gone out of business -May-2025

#1 Phyto Phytoargent No Yellow Shampoo

It's not a secret that we love Phyto products, their previous Phytoargent was #3 on our all-time Top 5 Gray Hair Shampoos list. This new incarnation has a great masculine medicinal scent, and the botanical formula is incredibly hydrating and nourishing for a gray hair shampoo. Use once or twice a week for a brighter white mane. But don't overuse or you'll be in blue hair territory!

Honorable mentions:

Jhirmack Silver Brightening Ageless Purple Shampoo Set is a winner. Everyone loves it.

Klorane Anti- Yellowing. Our #1 alternative to purple.

Shimmer Lights. Your grandmother's gray hair shampoo.



Need advice on a conditioner? Here are our 5 Best Conditioners for Gray Hair. 

Of course, here's our famous Top 5 Gray Hair Shampoos post that started it all.

The Guardian's Best Men's Shampoo for Gray Hair List

GQ Has a Gray Hair List too now. Everybody is learning to...

LOVE THE GRAY!

PRODUCT REVIEW: Dr Severin's Silver Shampoo

Review: Dr Severin's Silver Shampoo

PROS: 

Great anti-yellowing/whitening power

Less drying than most Purple Shampoo

Pleasant clean/sweet fragrance

 Dr. Severin's Silver Shampoo has one of the the most gorgeous shampoo bottles we've ever had on display in our bathroom!  

PETA-certified cruelty-free manufacturing

CONS: 

Yup, another Purple Shampoo.

Small bottle.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you're looking to change up your purple shampoo, or simply want another gorgeous bottle to line your shower, Dr. Severin Silver Special Shampoo is a great addition to your hair-whitening rotation.

Gray Peoples Problems #1: DRY HAIR

So by now you've made the commitment to stop fighting and Love The Gray. (GOOD FOR YOU!)  

You've scoured our site looking for how to brighten and whiten your gorgeous gray filaments and found the perfect gray hair-specific shampoo from our list of recommendations.

You may have picked one of the classic "purple ones" like Shimmer Lights or Natur Vital Henna Shampoo. 

You like how it's eliminated the yellow brassiness, but find that it is drying your hair out!

Here are a few tips to solve this classic Gray Peoples Problem:

1. Don't use purple hair shampoo every day!

For whatever reason, these shampoos do have a tendency to cause drying. So use them in rotation with other shampoos just when you need a whitening boost. Once or twice a week should generally be enough once you have tamed your initial brassiness problem, and depending on how long your hair is.

2. Use a purple conditioner

Thankfully there are loads of gray hair-specific conditioners on the market now. Here's a link to our list of favorite gray hair conditioners. Some purple, some not. For most people simply using a regular purple conditioner may be all the whitening you need, and you may not even need the purple shampoo! 

3. Mix your purple shampoo with your current conditioner

This is our favorite gray hair hack of all! 

Use a regular shampoo just to clean your hair when it's dirty, and simply add a tiny bit of purple shampoo to whatever regular conditioner you like the most. You'll whiten and nourish your hair at the same time! Some of our personal favorite conditioners include Silk 18, PUREOLOGY Hydrate conditioner, and good old Nexxus Humectress.

What are yours? 

Let us know in the comments below!

Product Review: Oribe Silverati Shampoo

First things first... 

Oribe's Silverati Shampoo is THE MOST EXPENSIVE GRAY HAIR SHAMPOO WE HAVE EVER USED!

$46 for just over 8 ounces of shampoo? That's only slightly less expensive than caviar. 
But Oribe is one of the most famous hairdressers in the world, so it's very on-brand for him to release a luxury hair care line. And we're very grateful he hasn't overlooked the Gray Pride community. 

Second things second...
We LOVE the name "Silverati"! 
We'd like to think of ourselves as being among the gray-haired ELITE! 
So bow down to us you salt-and-pepper peasants, we're members of the Silverati!  

But how is the shampoo? 
We like it! 
Oribe's Silverati Shampoo is gently cleansing, has a lovely fragrance, and isn't as drying as most gray hair shampoos. The anti-yellowing effect isn't quite as intense as some of our favorite purple shampoos, but we kind of like that. It's a milder, every day gray-hair shampoo for the luxury customer. Silverati shampoo includes exotic elements we've never heard of before in a shampoo, such as "European Silver Fir Extract", "Lycée", "Moringa Seed Oil" and "Mirabelle Plum". You can almost feel how expensive these ingredients are as you lather them into your hair... Or are we just buying into the hype? 

Is it worth it? That depends how much is $46 worth to you. We think it's worth a try.
There's an even pricier Silverati Conditioner, but we're waiting for our next pay check to give that one a go!

The Best Colors to Wear With Gray Hair

Dressing For Gray Hair

Okay, so you've committed to loving your gray, let it grow out the right way, and you're using the proper shampoos and conditioners to brighten and whiten your hair so it's practically luminescent! Now it's time to dress to impress!

There are very few colors that don't work with gray hair. Earth tones like olive or beige may wash you out a bit, and the yellow undertones in ivory or cream could bring out the yellow in your hair and make it look dull. But we subscribe to the never-say-never school of thought when it comes to fashion, so if you find a yellow sweater you love we say wear it!

However, there are colors that always help make gray hair even more striking. Let's take a look... 

BLACK

The contrast between black clothing and white hair always makes a dramatic statement. Wear black when you want to be taken seriously, like Meryl Streep in "The Devil Wears Prada" or José Mourinho managing Manchester United.  

GRAY

Gray-on-Gray is ALWAYS a winning combination! 

There's nothing like seeing a silver fox in a cozy gray sweater.

When in doubt, go gray!

JEWEL TONES

Dazzling jewel tones provide a wonderful compliment for gray hair in any shade. 

 When you want to stand out, wear a bright and bold jewel tone such as Ruby, Turquoise, Jade, Amethyst, Emerald Green, Cobalt, or Citrine. 

Wear a jewel tone when you're feeling flirty, fresh and want to draw attention.

BLUE

There's nothing like a soft blue color to bring out the cool tones in your hair.  A denim shirt says you're comfortable with who you are, and that you love your gray!

BOLD COLORS

Daring to wear a bright color says you may be gray, but you're still not afraid to make a big statement. As the pigment drains from your hair follicles, adding color into your wardrobe is a brilliant idea. Pinks, greens and purples are great, and a bright red may be the most flattering color of all with gray hair.  So be interesting, and go bold!

WHITE

A crisp white shirt is a absolute necessity for any Gorgeous Gray to have in their closet. It's an easy everyday look that is timeless and always looks classy.

 

What's YOUR favorite color to show of your gorgeous gray hair??

Matrix Total Results So Silver Shampoo and Colour Obsessed Conditioner - PRODUCT REVIEW

Matrix Color Obsessed So Silver began life as a product called Color Care So Silver. Now it's being marketed as part of their "Color Obsessed" line and we have to say, it's nice to have another high-end purple shampoo on the market!

PROS:

Great anti-brassiness, anti-yellowing properties.

Works especially well for blondes gone gray!

Reasonably priced

CONS:

Drying (typical of purple shampoos)

Dull fragrance

Matrix has paired it with their Total Results Color Obsessed Conditioner, a "color treated hair conditioner" they say is enriched with Vitamin E and Sunflower Oil. Even if naturally gray hair is not the same texture as over-processed hair it's a strong conditioner that penetrates nicely and is a nice compliment to the shampoo.

If you're looking for a one-stop-shopping option to brighten your gray hair and eliminate brassiness, this double pack is a great way to see if this combo is for you.

Ingredients

Water, Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Sodium Chloride, Coco-Betaine, Glycol Distearate, Dimethicone, Cocamide Mipa, Sodium Benzoate, Hexylene Glycol, Parfum / Fragrance, Salicylic Acid, Carbomer, CI 60730 / Ext. Violet 2, Guar Hydroxypropyltrimonium Chloride, Sodium Hydroxide, Citric Acid.

Do Men Need Different Gray Hair Shampoo?

Society has been telling us that while women should never let their hair go gray, it's only okay for men to be silver foxes. (Obviously if you've been reading this blog then you know by know that we think this is BALONEY!) 

But do silver foxes need a separate shampoo?  

The answer is: definitely not! Hair is hair regardless of gender, and if your hair has gray in it you need a shampoo to get rid of brassiness and yellowing. One of the choices on our list of top 5 gray hair shampoos would work perfectly. 

But for dudes who need to feel like they're using a "dude shampoo", American Crew's Gray Shampoo for Men is the ideal choice.

It has a masculine bottle. A patriotic name. And it's cheap!  If that doesn't sound like a "dude shampoo" to you then what does?

Jhirmack Distinctions Silver Plus Ageless Shampoo - Product Review

Product Review: Jhirmack Distinctions - Silver Plus Shampoo

"Ageless"? "Distinctions"??  

Jhirmack may be trying a bit too hard to convince you that your gray hair doesn't make you look older. But we're willing to forgive them.

Jhirmack Silver Plus is one of the highest rated gray hair shampoos on Amazon, and with good reason. It's a solid performer: a purple shampoo with excellent de-yellowing powers, it lathers well, and has a pleasant, light fragrance. 

And the best feature: it's about half the price of Clairol's best-selling Shimmer Lights. Like many purple shampoos it is a tad drying, so use it in rotation with more nourishing hair products such as its companion Jhirmack Silver Plus Ageless Conditioner.

It ain't fancy, but this might just be the budget purple shampoo you've been looking for.

Product Review: Sachajuan Silver Shampoo

We've seen a lot of purple, anti-yellowing shampoos here at Love The Gray.  

But when a friend sang high praises for Sachajuan Silver Shampoo, we had to give it a go. 
 And after several weeks of using it we were struck with the question... is Sachajuan Silver Shampoo the best purple shampoo for gray hair EVER?

The Good:

The purple power is strong with this one. The the anti-yellowing effect is almost immediate. Your salt-and-pepper will SHINE in no time!
It also feels lighter than other purple shampoos we've used, but still packs the punch.
It works well to eliminate brassy undertones, so if you're a blonde going gray this might be the perfect shampoo for you.

The Not-So-Good:

Like most violet shampoos, it's a bit drying. So you'll want to use it in rotation with other shampoos, and perhaps try it with the Sachajuan Silver Conditioner.
It's also it's a bit pricey. But since you don't use it every day, one little bottle should last you for months.  

The verdict:

So is Sachajan Silver Shampoo is the best purple shampoo we've ever used! YES!
Is it $20-per-bottle better than Shimmer Lights? Hard to say. But it just might bump it off our Top Gray Hair Shampoo list next time we update it!

If you like trying new products it's definitely worth a go, be sure to tell us what you think in the comments below!

How To Maintain A Gray Beard

Gray Beard Care: 101

This post is for the hirsute hunks, those guys with gray beards looking to keep them stylish and fresh. It seems every guy has a beard these guys. And until the clean shaven look is back in fashion, here's how to keep your beard looking it's best:

1. Use a trimmer!  

It doesn't matter if you're just working the salt-and-pepper stubble, or growing out a full Rip Van Winkle, you always need to shape your facial hair and keep the ends tidy. So an electric trimmer is essential. Adjust the setting for your desired length, use the side razor for edging, and a moustache comb for a nice uniform groom. A fancy Philips Norelco 7300 BeardTrimmer has a handy built-in vacuum, but a more basic Philips Norelco Multigroom 3100 will do you just fine. And for the love of god, please trim your nose and ear hairs while you're at it!

2. Use a brightening shampoo!

There's nothing more unattractive on a man than a yellowing white beard. If you're lucky enough to still have hair on top of your head, that's probably gray too. So pick one of our favorite gray hair shampoos and use it on your face as well to keep your beard looking white and bright.

3. Condition!

Like all hair, your beard hair needs moisture. And since grey hair tends to be more wiry, it's even more important to use a conditioner in the shower. Just remember to rub it on your beard and leave it in there for a couple extra minutes, since gray hair needs an extra moisture infusion. Any old hair conditioner will do, but if you want the Cadillac of hair conditioners try this one from Alterna. 

4. Groom!

And the last step, apply a few drops of beard oil and comb it through your beard at least once a day. Either dry or preferably on a damp beard just after you get out of the shower. It will soften the hair and prevent split ends. We love The Gentlemen's Beard Oil. It contains a mixture of essential oils including vitamin E and evening primrose which help nourish your skin and prevent itching. (Helps with "bearddruff" too! ) They make a nice unscented beard balm as well. You won't believe the difference that using a beard oil makes in how soft your beard will get. The people that you kiss will love you for it!